Friday, February 05, 2010

That Loving Feeling





Love topic is one of the most untiring things to explore and discuss. but let me tell you my perception when it come's to this extraordinary virtue called LOVE.

For some, feeling is synonymous with love. 
  • You’ve looked at each other's eye and you felt like your heart skipped a beat. And there, it is love.  
  • You touched her hand and you felt like an electric volt has run through each others veins, and there, it is love. 
  • You merely see his back, and your heart lurch like an urchin, and bingo! It is love! 
Those are the feelings they associated with love. Since they felt that way, therefore that feeling is love. In conclusion, they are in love. 
When such feeling become extinct, or ceased due to some reasons, then they would say they fell out of love. There is no feeling anymore. I want to be out of this relationship.  
Feeling a wonderful and intoxicating emotion towards the opposite sex is often mistaken as love. Then they are deceived.


❤️



Love is more than just a feeling. 
When there is that magical feeling, and then you loved-when the feeling has gone, so is your love. When you love, you eventually learn of the feeling, and then when the feeling is gone, you love still. 
"Feeling" is very weak and unstable basis of love. It is because, feeling varies. It changes. It weathers out. 
Love is choosing to care even when the feeling has gone. Love is choosing to understand without a question. 
  • Love is choosing to share even when at the least. 
  • Love is choosing to commit even when you found out of the imperfections. 
  • Love is accepting both the good and the bad.
  • Love is learning to meet halfway. 
  • Love is choosing to stay together and hold on till the last. Love never fades whatever it takes.

Let me quote the verse from Corinthians, 
"love is patient and kind;  it is not jealous or conceited or proud, love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable; love does not keep record of wrongs; love is not happy with evil, but is happy with the truth. Love never gives up; and it;s faith, hope and patience never fail. Love is eternal...."



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~2010

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