"walang manloloko kung walang taong nagpapaloko"

...while on a breakfast  with my friend Francis today, he blurted out, saying that "i'm not convinced with the thought - walang manloloko kung walang taong nagpapaloko". I suddenly stopped chewing the fish in my mouth (lolz). Cuz i know for the fact that this "saying" has been absolutely true.

i got into the bait of saying "it depends"... my first thought of elaborating it was to tell that it still depend on the person who's giving the favor, that is- if he's doing it for charity or out for compassion probably!

He later expounded that there are just people out there who are naturedly good, borne-to-be their weakness is to help others and be generous as much as possible. And later on the crossroads, he(those peeps outhere) will meet someone else who will later abuse his profoundly given wealth of generosity. On the other side, this man tagged as "abuser", why in the hell would he had the nerve to take advantage of the weakness of the other man?

And i bluntly said, it was his choice! He got the opportunity to take advantage and he will do it. And so it all boils down to ATTITUDE then, i reckoned..

I think i've said enough.