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“The best thing is to be respected, the next, is to be loved;
it is bad to be hated, but still worse to be despised.” - Chinese Proverbs
(read the first part here)
Pangatlo, is a side effect of the second reason. Because I've denied vulnerability, I'm struggling to connect emotionally.
According to experts, this is one of the most important factors in any successful romantic relationship --- connecting emotionally (deeper level).
- Or pwede din, I cannot connect emotionally because we simply don't vibe.
- Pwede din I haven't really met that single person whom I can connect effortlessly.
- On the bottom of this, I know I have difficulty in deep emotional connection, and I have low emotional tolerance.
There are many other reasons why our Titas are still single. These are just a few reasons, speaking from my own experience. Others have their own, or, maybe some, can relate to this three reasons stated earlier.
These personal realizations does not guarantee for me to have a successful romantic relationship now, nonetheless, I am at least aware, unmasking my true self, opening-up more. And thus, continuously doing my homework on the how-to.
Is it too late? The pressure of time is actually bothersome. However, committing at a later time is more agreeable than having one in the earlier years which surely would have been in vain.
To sum it up, it takes openness to fully understand ourselves before we can understand others.
It takes willingness in us to own ourselves so we can give it to others. We've read it in many pages, and it takes experience to totally understand the meaning of it.
- So just keep it up.
- Hang in there self.
- We're on our way Titas.
- Be patient.
- Pray for the one, and work on being the one.
~ Thinkerbelle ®
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